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What Is a Group Conscience

What Is a Group Conscience

Decision-making in ACA takes place through a process called Group Conscience. This process involves allowing each member to be heard and proceeding slowly. This avoids issues of drama, excitement, or controlling behavior, all of which may affect the outcome. Group...

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Waking Up To ACA Daily Meditation

Waking Up To ACA Daily Meditation

I often wake up anxious. My eyes pop open and my heart rate increases. Not because I'm in immediate danger or late for work. But because after growing up in an alcoholic home, my fragile nervous system is set to "High Alert". My survival instinct is programmed for any...

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The Sponsor Search

The Sponsor Search

The sponsor search is a responsibility each adult child handles in their own comfortable way. In the “Big Red Book”, there is a whole chapter about sponsorship.  These are my experiences of my sponsor search. Sponsors are members of ACA just like any other...

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My Experience as an ACA Sponsor

My Experience as an ACA Sponsor

Rigidity vs Flexibility - Being strict or rigid does not fill the bill for an adult child. All adult children have different backgrounds and experiences with dysfunctional behaviors in our lives. Look at the Laundry List. There are 14 different traits that we adult...

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The Promises, For Today

The Promises, For Today

I was going through one of those periods when I was feeling discouraged by my own lack of progress in my recovery journey. I also was struggling with doing affirmations. That practice seemed silly to me. I’d often think, “I don’t really believe what I’m saying. No...

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