Voices of Recovery

A New Year

A New Year

When I was a child and got into trouble for misbehavior, I would promise to “do” better. In recovery in ACA, I want to “be” better. I want to be my authentic self instead of making empty promises and continuing to pretend to be someone else. I want to talk about what...

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Unspeakable Crimes

Unspeakable Crimes

Can adult children who have committed a murder recover in a 12-Step program; or a crime such as rape, being a perpetrator of torture, or being a part of a cover-up for those who have done such acts as these? The short answer is, “Yes.”  It is important to know...

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I Am A Boulder

I Am A Boulder

I am a boulder. Shaken, pushed, and pulled by gravity and violent geology.  A large boulder slid, tumbled violently out of control, and crashed into me. When regarding the damage, the chips, cracks, and pain, I looked back bitterly and resentfully at the large...

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Look For It!

Look For It!

Beauty is something to look for, something I miss if I am preoccupied with getting things done, or worrying about something that will happen.  If I am out of actual danger right now, I have the option of looking, just for the tiny slice of time it takes to raise...

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